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What to Do When You Don't Feel Thankful


We are entering a season where we pause and give thanks. But, what if you don’t feel thankful? What do you do during Thanksgiving if you are in a season of waiting? Waiting for a promise to be fulfilled. Waiting for a prayer to be answered. How can you be grateful in the middle of a delay?

Here’s the truth. You don’t have to be grateful FOR all situations, but you can be grateful IN all situations. There is always something to be thankful for.

When there is a delay, we tend to forget what God has done in our life. We tend to forget God's goodness to us in the past. We tend to forget that God is with us. We tend to forget God's power.  We tend to forget how important it is that we stay in God's strength and we start focusing more on all our problems than on what He has done for us.

The Bible says, Don't forget.

Ps. 106:7-8, 13 (Message) “After our parents left Egypt, they took your wonders for granted, forgot your great and wonderful love. They were barely beyond the Red Sea when they defied the High God –the very place he saved them! – the place he revealed his amazing power! …but it wasn't long before they forgot the whole thing, wouldn't wait to be told what to do."  

This says, “many times.” It's unbelievable how short their memory was. In Egypt, God does ten plagues and the children of Israel forget it because a couple days later they're at the Red Sea and saying "We're all going to die!" They've forgotten what God's just done. God does a miracle and opens the Red Sea. They walk through to the other side and immediately forget that miracle.  "We're going to die of thirst!" God provides water miraculously. They forget that and complain, "We're going to die -- no food!" They were always forgetting.  

But we should not be too quick to judge them because we do the exact same thing. When a delay occurs in our lives we start acting like God's never done anything for us.

What have you been forgetting about God, how He's helped you so many times?

Instead of forgetting you Remember God's Promises.

There are over 7000 of them in the Bible. Whenever I have a problem, I try to find a promise. When I face a problem, I look for a promise. The promises are always greater than the problems you're facing.  

Ps. 103:2 (NLT)"Praise the LORD, I tell myself, and never forget the good things he does for me."  

2 Pet. 3:3-8.  "The Lord is not being slow to carry out His promises but He is being patient with you."  

You ask, Why isn't God fulfilling the promise in my life? God's never in a hurry.  God is never late, but seldom early. He can do things immediately, but He's working on a larger agenda. The delays that come in your life do not destroy God's purpose. They fulfill God's purpose in your life.

What is it you've been waiting on God to do? For Him to turn a problem around? To answer a prayer? To make a way in a place where it seems impossible for there to be a way, financially or physically or any other way? Maybe you've been waiting on God to bring that right person along.  Maybe you've been waiting on God to turn a crisis into a solution.

God hasn't forgotten. And a delay is not a denial.  “Not yet,” is not the same thing as, “No.”  

Hab 2:3 (NLT)"But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed."

The things you've waited for in your life, God will bring to fulfillment if you do not faint, do not fret, do not fear, do not forget.